Here’s a newsflash, people: Relationships are investment. You put nothing into an investment, you get no return, right? So put in the effort if you want to keep that person. Marriage and kids don’t have to change the relationship between the two as much IF you invest in EACH OTHER. Kids will absolutely DESTROY your marriage, but only if you let them. If your relationship is strong and you’re a united front, you will have more energy and time to spend ON your actual marriage and each other.
Imagine how you feel when your needs aren’t met. If you know how that feels, trust me, your wife has or does feel the same way. Imagine that her needs are not being met and, behind you, are three guys waiting in line to meet those needs, I promise. Bottom line: Pretend the two of you are still dating.
It’s simple, gentlemen, if you sufficiently do these three things, your relationship value will increase. These simple things, will get YOUR needs met too. Not getting enough physical affection? If you treat her like she matters, she will warm to you again and that rocky road will smooth out. I’m going to break this down with examples:
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Please share your feedback on how these techniques worked with your partner. Did they help to bring the two of you together?